I have been in DC for about two weeks now and I’ve finally broken out of the watch-Netflix-in-my-room-all-day mode. I’m not much of a homebody, so that lifestyle got very old quickly. I decided I would make a conscious effort to see the city and all it has to offer. Thankfully, this is my third (and also my longest) time in DC so I could skip the typical tourist attractions. Thankfully, I bought the 7-day Unlimited Metro pass so I don’t have to worry about loading my card with train fare all week. My adventurous spirit often leads me down long rides on the metro to unfamiliar territory. I am
mostly always by myself. On the 7:30 train to work by myself, venturing through neighborhoods looking for farmers markets by myself, trekking over to the Intro to Pole fitness class by myself, going to the Made in Hong Kong Film Festival by myself.
I am so accustomed to hopping on a train and not checking my plans for the day with anyone that it throws me off a little when I have to coordinate to meet up with people. I will say that it has been nice to occasionally meet up with friends for lunch or to hear a new band, but it’s also nice to just take myself out on cool dates. That’s how I see my adventures— like me taking myself out on the types of adventures I’d enjoy. I believe spending time with yourself teaches you your preferences and tastes. So far, I’d discovered a few things about myself:
1. My favorite spot in the movie theater is smack dab in the middle.
This weekend, I went to the Made In Hong Kong Film Festival and saw a great drama/comedy called “Aberdeen.” When I first got there, I was the only Black woman in the room. As the lights dimmed, everything around me faded away and I focused my eyes on the English subtitles. I laughed and gasped without shame, as did the movie-watchers on either side of me. And as the credits rolled, I clapped in appreciation. Yes, I’m that girl. I go to movies by myself, sit in the middle of the theater, and if the movie is really good, I clap.
2. I like enjoy a good Ethnic rice bowl.
Rice is the answer to world peace. It can bring together so many cultures . I’m a big fan of Chipotle’s rice bowls and I’m always looking to try out cultural equivalents. In DC, I have tried rice Tom Yum District (Thai), Roti Mediterranean Grill (Mediterranean), TaKorean (Korean). My favorite, hands down, was the TaKorean rice bowl. I tried it at the Union Market and I fell in love instantly. I was feeling especially carnivorous that day so I ordered my bowl (on the left below) with steak, pork, and chicken, cilantro, sriracha (first time trying this and I loved it), and lime cream. My friend/classmate, who I randomly bumped into at the market, ordered one steak, chicken, and a pork taco. It was hilarious watching people drooling and straning their heads to see what we were eating. You can see why:
3. If I go to a restaurant and breakfast is still available, I will order breakfast food (regardless of the time of day)
Pancakes, waffles, french toast, eggs…all day, everyday. That is my idea of a meal. My friend recommended I check out Busboys & Poets, which is a cool hangout spot/restaurant/poetry slam location. The service was good and so was the food. I had a classic french toast with eggs and fruit. I also ordered pomegranate lemonade! (Fun fact: I always get good vibes about a restaurant that serves pomegranate lemonade. It shows they’re open-minded and accommodating.)
4. Bikeshare only makes me miss my Schwinn bike
I’m quite envious of DC bikers. One, because I’m nowhere near brave enough to ride on the road in DC traffic. Second, because I left my beautiful Schwinn bike at home and I’m forced to rely on things like Capital Bikeshare to get the feeling of the wind running through my hair. Don’t get me wrong, the Bikeshare is an ingenious idea and it definitely is a great way to see the city. I just don’t like how clunky the bike feels between my legs and underneath me. The membership fee options are not terrible, if you do it right. I like that you can drop off your bike at one of designated bike rack that is closest to you. Also all trips under 30 minutes are free. It makes biking a very convenient option. I like that DC is training people to get into the biking mentality. If you’re interested in biking through the city, check out the Capital BikeShare website here.
5. Lesser known musicians rock my world
I’m the type of girl who enjoys cover bands and thinks YouTube artists are some of the best musicians because they have a type of drive, raw talent, and desperation that makes a beautiful sound. On Saturday night, I heard a new band called Marlee in the Mixx. Their sound is Neo-Soul/Go-Go groove plus a lot of other stuff too. As I was listening, all I wanted to do is tilt my head back, sway, and raise my drink in the air. But being the musical creep that I am, all I could do was bob my head with wide eyes and sip on my water in appreciation. The lead female singer (Marlee) has a crazy mane of curly hair and she sings and raps. The extremely talented 9-member crew jammed together on the crowded platform. They seemed to be enjoying making the music as much as we enjoyed hearing it. The show was great and the atmosphere was grown and chill.
In addition to the ones above, this week I also took myself out on a date to Trader Joe’s and to Pole Pressure. My stomach is thanking me for introducing it to Cocoa & Cookie Butter and my neck is cursing me for trying that one move at the end of the pole class. I had a good time. Would I go out with me again? I sure would! I can’t wait to see what I come up with next.
10 thoughts on “DC Chilling: Dating Myself Part 1”
Very Proud of you! Like… VERY!
Thank Christine! I’m working through the list you gave me. Jazz in the garden was amazing!
I love the TaKorean truck, their food is so yummy! DC has some awesome sights for sure, welcome to the area!
Thank for the welcome, Jess!
Sounds like you’re making the most of your time here! You should really try Shophouse. It’s basically a Southeast Asian Chipotle & I’m obsessed with it. There’s one in Dupont & Georgetown. The rest are in California lol.
Thanks for stopping by, Adaeze. I’ll be on the lookout for Shophouse!
I like to sit smack dab in the middle of movie theaters, too. Or any theater for that matter… it’s the best view :-)
And I think rice is the answer to work peace, myself. I don’t see how people can get sick of rice. It’s RICE!
I’m glad someone knows where I’m coming from!
Hey Timi! It was nice meeting you at the discussion event last night. It was cool to vibe with a fellow creative. Meanwhile, I’m still learning how to date myself. I’m yet to do even the easiest task – going to the movies by myself. Sadness personified! Lolol. Oh and thanks for the rice bowl suggestions. Gonna check each of them out.
Hey Viv, it was great meeting you the other day! Yes, I challenge you to go to the movies solo dolo or even to lunch by yourself, You may feel like everyone is staring at you, but they’re secretly impressed that you had the gal to do it.
And I peeped your blog. It’s too cute! I can tell you’re in the loop about cool events in DC. I’ll def. be in touch when I’m back in the Spring :)